Category Archives: Veteran Pals

Combat Battle Buddies.

Get By With a Little Help From My Friends; At Toastmasters.

As a member of Toastmaster Eyeopeners club, it stuck me that the value of training that Toastmasters International provides when coupled with men and women who are taking advantage of the new GI Bill, could afford us one incredibly empowered crop of Graduates.

As one of our senior members; Jim Davis stated at one of our breakfast meetings, “can you imagine four years of Toastmasters along with four years of College?” Well, I can. And knowing how difficult it was for me to communicate when I returned from the Vietnam War, the notion of refining communication skills in a safe and fun environment like Toastmasters is quite appealing. So appealing that I think we should find a way to sponsor a returning veteran in one of the many area clubs. Now that would be called, “Support the Troops” par excellance!

The purpose of Toastmasters is to provide a mutually supportive and positive environment in which every member has an opportunity to develop oral communication and leadership skills, which in turn foster self- esteem and personal growth. Kinda like the Armed Forces itself! The whole aspect of self-actualization in a safe, caring, help your buddy setting seems to be the perfect assist for a college student.
And,the core values of Toastmasters, integrity, dedication to excellence, service to the member, and respect for the individual are just the right recipe for a veteran transitioning to civilian life. My hope is to make this a codified national outreach program for Toastmasters International. Tell me what you think. Or leave a message on a hot-line for Vets. 540-7000

Education is Called Stimulus Too

Yellow Ribbon ProgramMany thanks go to the American Legion for their diligence in keeping the Veteran population informed about any and all issues effecting the lives of our vets. I cannot imagine what it would be like without these men and women who continue to serve our country with heart and soul. The American Legion is literally woven into the fabric of my development. My grandfather Frank Gorham was one the first Commanders in 1919 in Dixon, Illinios, home of Ronald Reagan. My mom, my aunts, and my grandmother all served as local and state presidents of the Auxillary. There was never a July 4th or Veterans Day parade where my brother Greg and I were not riding with the Legionaries. I learned to play baseball with the Legion and how to shoot pool with the old men….Now I are one!
And my grampa Frank Gorham, who served on the USS Vermont in WWl was also a Veteran Advocate in those days, and continues to be my inspiration to this day as a volunteer service officer with the new Marine Corps League in Marana.

Out-of-State, Private & Graduate Educations Made More Affordable

WASHINGTON – Over 1,100 colleges, universities and schools across the country have entered into “Yellow Ribbon” program agreements with the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) to improve financial aid for Veterans participating in the Post-9/11 GIBill. Over 3,400 agreements were received from the 1,100 schools participating in the Yellow Ribbon Program. “This is a strong response to a new benefit,” Keith Wilson, Director of VA’s Education Service, said. “We are pleased so many institutions are supporting our Veterans.”

“The Post-9/11 GI Bill is an important part of fulfilling our promise to the men and women who have served our country so honorably,” Secretary of Veterans Affairs Eric K. Shinseki said. “Implementing this landmark legislation and providing even more veterans with a quality education is a top priority for VA. We are grateful so many schools are joining us as partners in this unprecedented effort.” The Yellow Ribbon program, a provision of the new Post-9/11 GI Bill, funds tuition expenses that exceed the highest public in-state undergraduate tuition rate. Institutions can contribute up to 50 percent of those expenses, and VA will match this additional funding for eligible students.

The Yellow Ribbon program is reserved for Veterans eligible for the Post-9/11 GI Bill at the 100 percent benefit level. This includes those who served at least 36 months on active duty or served at least 30 continuous days and were discharged due to a service-related injury.

The Post-9/11 GI Bill, passed by Congress last year, is the most extensive educational assistance program authorized since the original GI Bill was signed into law in 1944. The maximum benefit allows every eligible Veteran, servicemember, reservist and National Guard member an opportunity to receive an in-state, undergraduate education at a public institution at no cost. Provisions of the program include payments for tuition and fees, housing, and a books and supplies stipend. Benefits are payable for training pursued on or after August 1, 2009. The tuition and fee benefit is paid directly to the school.

For information on specific schools participating in the Yellow Ribbon program, go to Yellow Ribbon Program.

Additional information about the Post-9/11 GI Bill and Yellow Ribbon program, as well as VA’s other educational benefits, can be obtained by visiting VA’s Web site at http://www.gibill.va.gov/or by calling 1-888-GIBILL-1.

My First Tea Party- Sorta

Sign of the times?
Sign of the times?
My wife and I strolled downtown this evening to absorb the wonderful summer evening La Placita Cinema. We met in La Placita 3 decades ago, so it is always a special experience for us. The movie “Mr Smith Goes To Washington” was the billing tonight, creating a fascinating backdrop to the pre-show activities of the Tea Party folks.
I am not impressed with these thugs. I understand they were there to mess with Congresswoman Giffords, who wisely did not grace this cacophonous group of self appointed narcissistic patriots, with her presence.
The individual with the sign reading; ” 1 Black Pres Leads U.S. Into Slavery,” is right on the edge of a hate crime. Not one of these folks would make it one day in my mans Marine Corps. The subconscious bigotry is leaking out of their pores, and their tactics are nearing laws that address the inciting of a riot. The conversations I overheard were at the 2 digit IQ level. Their blatant, in your face, interruptions and rudeness to the classy movie crowd were nearly intolerable. Kudos to the movie fans who booed them to oblivion.
Curiously the movie starring Jimmy Stewart is chock full of courtesies, and a reverence for the process of government, even when in disagreement. The movie ends with a showing of potency that lends a message to this transitory movement known as Tea Party.
The fact that this extremist movement, along with its partners at Freedom Works, are funded by Swift Boat like 527’s tells you how easily it is to lead the masses. That is the scary part.
Too bad none of them stayed to watch Mr. Smith Goes to Washington. I suppose it did not have enough fuel for their aberrant needs. God Bless America. ONE– Nation under God.

Veterans Memorial Stadium:Where Did It Go?

Late in 1997, prior to the completion of the Baseball facility known as Tucson Electric Park, it was still officially known as Veterans Memorial Stadium. That is the name that was sold to the voters. That is the name that was promised to the voters of Pima County. That is the name that was used to promote the sale of the bonds and effectuate the taxing mechanism to pay for the joint. That is the name that was used to form an entity known as a Stadium District, which is shorthand for Sports Socialism.

And that is the name; Veterans Memorial Stadium that was surreptitiously removed in the middle of the night, with no voter input, and handed over to Tucson Electric for an amount never to be published.

Now 11 years later with three ‘Dear John’ letters from our spring training mistresses, we have a vacant ballpark and a bankrupt stadium district that had to borrow $6.5 million dollars from the General Fund to simply keep the lights on. Might one of the readers suggest who will be repaying that loan to the taxpayers? True Socialism is more egalitarian and immensely more beneficial to its citizens. Tucson Electric Park, and the structure of the Stadium District could well be defined as tainted sports socialism as it has only benefited a protected class—baseball and its assigns. The power company being one of those assigns.

I was the Executive Director of the Pima County Sports Authority in those days. It was an assignment that I was told by the late Dan Felix would be akin to “bringing peace to the middle east”, as the City and County officials could not even sit in the same room, because of the immense enmity between the municipalities. The promises that were made to the broad base of youth and amateur sports were abound; all to win their hearts and minds for their support of the new stadium. The promises were made by the ruling class- Baseball Spring Training; a prima facie superior entity that imagined itself to be able to perform salvific acts of economic development were we to just allow them to tax RV rentals in Pima County. Had they consulted with the RV folks in advance they may not have expired of terminal sports narcissism. The RV community was insulted at such arrogance and lack of basic courtesy to give them a “heads up” of what was to be a financial mugging. They brought in their in house attorneys from the national association and squelched the plan, leaving the Stadium District without a collateralized revenue stream. All three major league teams knew this and had a sense of angst about Tucson from the very beginning of the first season.

The Veteran community was not sought out either prior to the perfunctory removal of the name Veterans Memorial Stadium.

In the fall of 1997, I was on a goodwill bus tour to Nogales,Az to promote the new stadium. I sat next to the Architect who had the uncomfortable duty of removing the name “Veterans Memorial Stadium” from the blue line architectural building plans. The name was sold to Tucson Electric to help pay the bills. He was deeply embarrassed, as he remembered how proud his father and uncle, both WWll veterans, were of this new project.

I have no beef with naming rights. They are a financially prudent revenue instrument. It is the process that was slimy and a breach of faith to those whose hearts and minds were persuaded to vote for the project known to them as Veterans Stadium.

Insulting Veterans and winter visitors may not be considered good karma. Tucson Electric Park was star crossed from the beginning. From the marginally ethical eminent domain of church property;(Jim Click bailed them out), to the promises to create jobs for South Tucson youth,(not!), its entire history is streaked with operational confabulations and outright PR efforts to marginalize all other sporting entities in Tucson, so as to monopolize the leisure time sports dollar.

Any new Sports Commission that if formed for the sole purpose of saving baseball is a Trojan Horse- then and now. The lip-service they render to other amateur,youth and semi-pro sports is pure poppycock, then and now. Many of the organizers of the newly formed Sports Authority are the same hombres, and they do not have a track record of giving a hoot about anyone but themselves and job security in the industry. Ask them for any prepared documents they have outlining the actual commitments, not plans, they have for supporting “other” sports. You will quickly note how vacant the promise is and the lack of collective will to be anything but a baseball commission. All else is as slick as the public relations department of the power company. I do not blame them however for wanting to salvage their good name.

My informal but broad based demographic poll of Tucson and Pima County residents, is that there is a near zero tolerance for another tax for baseball.

As Doc Holliday once said, “my hypocrisy knows no bounds”. During the City Budget hearings, the hotel industry rolled out their impassioned testimonies about the apocalyptic effects of an increase in bed tax. Yet, they will roll over for baseball. Wassssup?

Now let me qualify this rant. I love baseball. I love its entrenchment in our culture. I was a bat boy for the Cleveland, Indians. I managed a project in Tucson that was owned with Cleveland sports management money gained from baseball players. I was raised playing American Legion Baseball in Dixon, Illinios, the hometown of Ronald Reagan who was a sports announcer and role model for my uncle Bill who also announced baseball. My uncle Bill used to take me to the Cubs games as often as we could get into Chicago. He told me the story of the National Anthem first being sung in a public arena, at the 1918 World Series between the Cubs and the Boston Red Sox, as the whole stadium crowd rose to their feet in honor of WWl veterans. I imagine that day in my mind each time I stand to sing the National Anthem. I am a combat veteran of the United States Marine Corps. We remember things. That is the reason I tell you now of the rudeness of the actions of baseball organizers and their empty promises to our community.

Give us back the name Veteran Memorial Stadium, and you may earn some goodwill.

How Military Serivice Has Changed My Life

Members of the American Legion have many common bonds, and the Legion would like to hear from you about the nature of those common threads. A passion for community service, patriotic voices, and a bent toward caring about national security. From the trenches of France to the sands of Afghanistan we all have a common bond of having served our nation in time of need.
No one who served in the Military comes out unchanged, be it a two year hitch or a 20 year career.
The American Legion wants to know in 200 words or less how your service in the Armed Forces impacted your life. Was it the discipline,the teamwork, the mission oriented life, or simple fellowship that colored your life today.
Send you submissions to’ “myservice@legion.org” or snail mail to;
American Legion Magazine
PO Box 1055
Indianapolis,IN. 46206

We can also have some fun on this post by hearing from our readers about your Military experience. Would you want your children to serve in the Armed Forces?

Job Well Done
Job Well Done

One Veterans Take on Obama's Birth Certificate

PrideFor starters, I sure hope this adolescent poppycock does not get milked for the balance of the summer. And by adolescent, I do mean the content of the question, which will be settled soon, but the way it plays out in the media, and the cottage industry and frenzy it creates in the minds of already marginally sane ideologues.
With that as a preface, I say that if Obama is not a citizen of the USA, then we have to be gravely concerned about the skill set of the FBI, CIA, NSA, and INS, as all of these agencies are mandated to vet a United States Senator prior to their taking the Oath of Office. If he ain’t the real McCoy than he is bringing down four agencies in the process. Fat chance.
The indolence of the major media in not knowing or addressing this fact of process and protocol is a story in itself.
Media indolence, however, is abound. In the 2000 Presidential election there was story flying across America about how overseas ballots were not “postmarked,” and therefore invalid. Americans bought this poppycock too. As a one time contributor to the Stars and Stripes I can tell you with certainty that correspondence from men and women at war is not postmarked and never has been since WWl, It comes by way of the Armed Forces Postal System and is frequently not dated. No media outlet reported this simple truth and milked the story and lathered the people of this fine land for months.
If you take this country of origin issue to its extreme than George Washington’s Presidency should be annulled as we was not a citizen of the United States. He was born in a British Colony. Mitt Romney’ father was born in Mexico, John McCain in Panama, and Barry Goldwaters birth place was questioned. So what’s for breakfast?
And why in the world anyone thinks a Birth Certificate is sacrosanct is beyond reason. Have you ever been in to an OB.GYN ward when a child is born? They will write in the name of the parents you tell them to write. No one asks for ID! Doctors will pre-sign the Birth Certificate leaving the fathers name blank. And someone thinks that these un-notarized documents are some form of Divine Edict?
The newspaper announcements of a child’s birth are equally valid as they name time,and place. There are three announcements of Obama’s birth in local papers in Hawaii. I suppose those news outlets were part of some grand conspiracy that is tied into the predictions of Nostradamus! My word, lets bring back the Lacey Petersen Trial for the summer.
Get some professional genealogists on the evening news and close the case. Hard to do when you have to fill 24/ 7 cable news for Mr. Murdoch. I think I will hang with the Tucson Citizen bloggers myself. No one here is taking any “527” money.

The Vietnam Veteran of Today

Semper Fi
Semper Fi

“We were soldiers once and young.” We were patriots against the wind. Our leaders were three-legged stools. Our pictures were not pretty. Our story had no plot. Our hope was ephemeral and we were shunned by our own. Some did not recover. Was this a test? Was this some metaphysical trial by fire to prepare us for a new order of things? Is it not possible that the travails of the Vietnam Veteran were akin to the friction that creates diamonds? Is is not possible that our dark night of the soul and survival through times of absolute chaos and calamity has by some accident of history prepared us to be one of the most compassionate and collective moral leaders our nation has ever known?
As a band of brothers and sisters, Vietnam Veterans are a damn formidable force. We are an extended family fused with a brotherly love and an uncommon sense of justice without prejudice.
Vietnam Veterans are one of the most inclusive and culturally diverse corporate bodies in our land. Very much to the contrary of popular media are families have been emboldened and enriched by our service in the Armed Forces and a tour of duty in the Vietnam theater. Cliche as it may be, “if it doesn’t kill you it makes you stronger.”
How ironic that these rare psychological survival skills, gained without volition, during a time when we were shamed, have become the ingredients of a brand of leadership that may lead us out of an abyss created by the current elected. How poignantly ironic that we arise now from the apocalyptic and nihilistic experience of the jungle to provide light and levity to a seriously polarized world.

Memorial for John Mair

The Memorial for John Mair will be held at Abbey Funeral home on North First Ave. on Tuesday July 7th from 4-7pm. Since John had not been rated 100% Disabled for very long, his VA death benefits will not be able to transfer to his wife. In fact his last check went into the bank by way of automatic deposit and will need to be returned. His mortgage payment was taken out of that check, and his wife is now in jeopardy with their new home.
I know that there are many heartfelt stories out there in these trying financial times, yet it seems like such a miscarriage of justice that the man who helped everyone get their claims through is without assistance when it is needed most.
Donations can be directed to Bertha Mair c/o Don Barton at 380 S. Treston Ln. Tucson, Az. 85712.
If someone gets hurt in heaven, I am sure John will be there to pick them up.

A Very Good Man

A very good and decent man passed yesterday. His name was John Mair. He was one of the finest Veteran Service Officers in the State. He worked for the Arizona Department of Veterans Affairs, and saved the lives of many men and women who needed advocacy with their Disability Claims. John succumbed to a brain tumor. So tragic as he had just retired. I will post Memorial Information when I am informed. God speed John.