When a soldier goes to war, the family goes to war. There was a time when soldiers went to war, the community went to war. Virtually every township and neighborhood had a family member in uniform. Sacrifices, both personal and corporate were distributed throughout the community. Now, it would take a modern day Diogenes to find an honest sacrifice.
In 21st century wars of assimilation (most undeclared), there is a dwindling level of support and sacrifice for the actual war effort. Ironically, American morale for supporting the troops is at an all-time high, but we are in a total state of disconnect from the conduct of war and its combatants. T.S. Elliot wondered, “How much reality can humankind handle?” Are we simply in overload mode?
The April, 1966 cover of Time Magazine featured the “God Is Dead Movement.” The phrase was immediately misunderstood, losing much of its intention to inform us that we had lost the symbolic language about God, and thereby lost the experience of God in our daily existence. Is it possible that war is dead in America?
“Only the dead know the end of war,” said the philosopher Plato, yet, how will one know the memories of war and its dead if not through the living who have borne the battle?
Without a syntax for war, its meaning dies before the soldier.
Author Mark Thompson, writing for Time magazine on November 10, 2011, suggests our armed forces and civil society are drifting apart. His characterization of “an army apart” is accurate and confirmed by active duty troops. We now have a highly-trained population of professional military volunteers who continuously at war for nearly 20 years, yet that irony surfaces again as they represent only a 0.5% slice of the population. This is the lowest percentage of Americans serving in the Armed Forces since before World War I.
Our voluntary combatants are primarily poor kids and patriots from the lower socioeconomic strata. The upper crust of American society is mostly AWOL from war, yet they are the ones making decisions about war. In the 1970’s, 77% of our lawmakers were veterans. That percentage has now slipped to 22%. War and the memory of war is pretty much dead in the personal lives of those on Capitol Hill.
On this Memorial Day, we reverently march on with profound respect and honor for all Americans who have died in battle from the Boston Massacre to the streets of Kabul. Since its inception as Decoration Day after the American Civil War when freed slaves sang songs of praise for their liberation by Union soldiers, we continue this most sacred of federal holidays. Yet, it may be time to refresh our memories of war itself, and the consequent sacrifices that are charged to a citizenry adhering to the Constitutional dictum, “to provide for the common defense” – the operative word being, “common.”
The day-to-day, hour-to-hour reality of providing for the common defense begs to be memorialized on this day so as to not trivialize the sacrifices of those who died for the common good.
On Memorial Day, the American flag is swiftly run up to the top of its staff, and then quietly, reverently lowered to half mast in recognition of the millions who gave their all for this land of the free and home of the brave. In some traditions, that flag remains at half mast until noon, when the memory of the dead is raised with the flag by the survivors resolved to never allow those sacrifices in defending our Constitution to be in vain.
In the week after Memorial Day, find a soldier, sailor, airman, or Marine, and ask them to tell you their saga of war and of those they lost. You will then experience the meaning of Memorial Day.
Michael Patrick Brewer, Combat Veteran/ U.S. Marine Corps
Just picked up a copy of “AWOL, The unexcused absence of America’s upper classes from military service” by Kathy Roth-Douquet. I have not had a chance to read it as yet but it looks like it follows your data.
Can’t tell you about the lower classes going into combat but my son went and three of his friends from his high school went here in Tucson. Between them they saw a lot of combat. I wouldnt call them lower classes?!!
But you are right in the fact that the family goes to war. We (as well as the other families) never knew when the grey sedan with two Army officers were going to be at the driveway with the bad news.
He is done now and in school. But I still think about his friends who never came home and was it worth the cost. True for all wars.
While there are those that honor the sacrifice of war, and that is something I
acknowledge, I believe at its core war is selfish. In the old days we would be
inspired by our leader as we fought the good fight. Our leader was there, not
just because we had an election; but because of our support through our elected
representatives. Once it was figured out how to circumvent receiving permission
from the people by not declaring war, everyone could absolve themselves of the
horrors being committed. Gains could be achieved without responsibility. Of
course we the people could demand accountability; but, we choose to receive
without blame.
Our secular materialism has ruled out the spiritual presence that would
guide a war that is just. So yes, as God has been declared dead to our
consciousness, we have lost the desire to strive for the victory that signals the
end of all war.
Good points. But I doubt that God would understand what a “just war is”. Of course defeating the Nazis in WWII was important but we won because of military important points. i.e. We had broken their codes. Also for the Japanese. We broke their codes also. It would have been a different type of war if we had not.
The North winning the Civil War was a fight over good vs. evil. But there are many grey areas in history. I for one am glad that Alexander the Great launched his pre-emptive war against the Persians. If the Persians had had another go at Greece our way of life would be radically different. Those victories over the Persians meant that the Persians were done, never to invade Europe again. There are many others in history. The final push back of the Mongolians by the Europeans, The defeat and pushback of the Moors in France. War does settle things. Ask Napoleon at Waterloo, Hitler, etc etc.
I just love people who know history. Good supplement Fraser. We could use some more history mavens who offer accurate narratives.
Outstanding wisdom you have shared here today Michael, love you man!
Outstanding wisdom Michael, I love you man!
The 60 Minutes segments tonight were the most respectful and revealing of the nature of war, then I have seen in years. And then the PBS Memorial Day Concert just knocked it out of the park.Do not miss this. I am pretty sure it plays again tomorrow.